A collection of 12 posts
Being a parent brings so much joy—those funny, happy moments that fill your heart. But ever since our first child was born, I’ve wondered if I’m doing it right. ...
Trust building in families seems simple—until the teenage years. But it’s not just the kids. Busy parents often feel disconnected from each other too, with work and daily demands taking over. Building trust within a family requires a conscious effort....
Our logo at TFM, fittingly, is a tree. 🌲 We’ve metaphorically "cut it down" to examine its trunk, revealing insights into what makes some family trees resilient and others less so....
Join us on the "It's Never About Money" podcast where Total Family Management's Alex Kirby discusses family wealth beyond finances....
If you’re looking for a new approach for 2024, keep reading....
Are you ready to add a sprinkle of laughter and a dash of competition to your family gatherings? At Total Family Management (TFM), we know that amidst tackling significant life topics and enhancing social fitness, it's crucial to remember the power of simple fun. That's why we're thrilled to offer our TFM families an incredible opportunity: Virtual Family Game Nights! Imagine this: Your entire family, from little Timmy to Grandpa Joe, coming together for a night of joyous laughter and friendly ...
Ah, Thanksgiving – a time of gratitude, gourmet gobbling, and... the inevitable launch into politics that sends a shudder around the table. But fear not! This year, every mention of a bill or ballot is just another step towards BINGO victory! 🏆 At TFM, we believe in the power of play to turn any gathering from stressed to best. And what's better than a game everyone can win? (Except maybe those football bets – sorry about that. 🏈) 🕒 "Why are we eating so early?" Boom. 👖 Tight pants post-tu...
"The limits of my language mean the limits of my world." - Ludwig Wittgenstein Picture this: a quintessential American scene with parents in the kitchen, yelling toward the adolescents in the other room. The parents are convinced the kids don't listen. The kids are sure their parents don't understand them. And the grandparents? They're chuckling at the irony of it all. The Universal Struggle of Communication Let's be honest—no family has ever claimed to have perfect communication. It's a co...
Let's delve into some captivating insights from the World Values survey, specifically focusing on what people value when raising children: * Hard Work & Imagination: Journey back to 1990. Only 29% believed that instilling the value of hard work in children was essential. Come 2022, this sentiment has grown to 48%. Similarly, the emphasis on nurturing imagination in children has risen from 18% to 27%. * Obedience: Remember when "because I said so" was a parenting mantra? In 1998, 50% felt...
Life can often feel like a relentless march, leaving us little time to savor the things that bring us joy and a sense of self. Our Favorite Things workshop is a welcome pause in this busy journey. It's an opportunity to revisit moments in your life when you felt most alive. Think back to that hobby you once dedicated hours to, or the career achievement that made you beam with pride. These moments are more than just memories; they are windows into the essence of who you are. Favorite things ...
One remarkable aspect of rituals is their dual nature: they are passed down to us from our ancestors, yet we can transform and shape them for our own families. ...
Warning: Family Coaching may lead to significant improvements in family dynamics, increased happiness, and stronger bonds. Side effects may include enhanced communication skills, reduced conflicts, and a higher level of emotional intelligence. Clients have reported experiencing improved decision-making abilities, strengthened relationships, and a more satisfying family life. Family Coaching is not suitable for families seeking to maintain dysfunctional patterns or avoid personal growth. Please c...